My ex boyfriend and I broke up less than 3 weeks ago. We were together 5 months. He was a complete a**hole during the breakup. I had previously arranged to meet up with him to discuss our relationship because he refused to tell his best friend we were together. He asked my best friend to tell me we were breaking up for him because he didn't want to tell me he wasn't telling his friend, absolute pus*y.
So we broke up, he claimed it was because he was 'too busy for a girl right now' and that we were 'completely different people', absolute bullsh*t.
So two weeks after we break up, he's already seeing another girl I know. I'm absolutely fuming, because he lied to me about our breakup and because he's now with a friend of mine.
I'm hurt he never even actually cared about me at all. I feel like our whole relationship he was lying about everything. I feel so betrayed and angry at myself for thinking he was different. I was never in love with him or anything, but I did really like him.
Is it okay for me to be angry at him? I in no way want him back, he can go fall off a cliff for all I care. I'm just angry and hurt that he lied and that he got with my friend. So angry.
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Sure it's OK to be angry! Sounds like he treated you in a way no decent guy should ever do. Now it's over, though, try not to dwell on it too much. Turn round, walk away and don't look back over your shoulder. Keep looking forward, and eventually you will meet a good guy who will love you without any conditions, and will treat you like a lady should be treated.
Take care, stay safe!!1