I started going out with this guy a month and a half ago and I really liked him at first. Now that we have been dating I am seeing thar our personalities dont really match, he is to docile and shy.
I want to break up with him but he seems so fragile. I feel like he will cry and become depressed and I dont want to hurt his feelings like that but at the same time I dont want to string him along when I am feeling like this. His parents even told me once that they were so thankful for me Because I brought him out of his shell... but I can't keep lying like this everytime he hugs more or tries to kiss me I awkwardly pull away... any tips?
I know I sound like a bitch and mean but I dont want to hurt him more by staying in this relationship.
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I see you here, dear, as this Honest Jane who is Reaching desperately Out for help in trying to smooth all of the wrinkles Out of A... Break up with him but he seems so fragile.
Sit him down, face to face, and break the ice with being nice. Tell him you really have enjoyed being together but you feel in your heart tha things are going a bit too fast for you and you would like to bring this down one notch by going slow with your flow and just Be... Friends right now.
Explain to him that you love his family and that he is very special, but friendship right now is the way you feel More at ease in Going, and you hope that you both can be friends.
If he cares about you unconditionally, he will understand. Although yes, disappointed and heart broken inside, he may be this Mr. Nice Guy who won't give up and will be grateful for just Some sort of Try.
As hard as it may be, he has to know. It would not be fair, @Orchidfur to keep leading you both down a problem path of Denial.
Good luck and No, not a 'B*tch' at all with what I see on the wall. xx0