There's a man I had worked with briefly and I had no idea he liked me, so he resurfaced and started asking me out. I started liking him but he was moving TOO fast which made me nervous. Anyway, I did see him one night, and I did not have sex with him - he did try and after almost 2-3 weeks of calling, texting, wanting to see me, since that night he's changed.
So just some emails here and there and lightly keeping me in touch truly made me think he had someone else and/or was mad at me and changed because I said I just didn't wanna rush sex and needed a little more time, so this was my punishment.
I didn't argue, fight, or say anything wrong, but the day after I helped him online get some work done, since he was still being distant, I couldn't deal with it anymore, and I blocked him on Skype and FB.
For whatever reason, this all hurt me a lot and I just needed to put some space to let this go... is he going to hate me now?
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Even if he is this sore sport here, dear, this little "Punishment' of your own may teach this old dog new tricks Not to mess with the Best from the Rest.
He knows he is in the dog house here, dear, and feeling like "Going to hate me now?" No, I would assume he is Feeling Guilty and all I can Say... Kudos to you, he barked up the wrong tree.
Bury this bone and move on. Learn a lesson or two from your own experience and let sleeping dogs lie now somehow.
Good luck and Good work. xx0
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