also she is still with the guy she cheated on him with and has a second child with that man.
Most Helpful Guy
No he shouldn't because she doesn't care. He still hurts
Most Helpful Girl
Erm, ok... Feeling the need to tell them means you are 100% NOT over it. That is like the biggest sign of not being over it. If you feel you have to prove to your ex you're doing ok, or you want to tell them how they hurt you, or get back at them or any such actions related to that, they are NOT over them.
When you're truly over someone you don't really think of them very much and most definietly wouldn't have a desire to contact them!
Doesn't mean break up with him straight away, but just explain your fears to him and see how he reacts. If he reacts badly he most definitely still has feelings and you're a rebound, even such a long time later! But it's not longer than the relationship was so...
And if he reacts well then he'll work on it and tell you whats what :)