My ex boyfriend cheated on me while he was away at a school trip in Costa Rica and broke up with me about a month after (of course I had no idea he had cheated at that time). His reasons for the break up were that I made him feel like a bad boyfriend, and that our relationship was having more downs than ups. I understand I'm pretty complicated just like any other person, but the only thing I confronted him about was the excess of PDA, which makes me very uncomfortable. 3 weeks later I found out he cheated and confronted him in a very civilized manner. I didn't yell or insult him; instead, I let him know that I knew what happened, that I was utterly disappointed that he had lowered himself to that level, that this should be a lesson for him to learn that cheating episodes are always discovered, and that by the fact he cheated I learned a lot more about him than I did in our 7 months together. We didn't speak for the rest of the year, he couldn't look at me in the eyes. As seniors now, we have most of our classes together and he turns 100% serious whenever he talks to me for any reason. It's like he hates me. Life literally evaporates from his face when he has to talk to me. It makes being in class awkward, but I no longer hold a grudge over our past. I'm well over it. Though again his behavior makes school uncomfortable. So why does he act like he hates me if he cheated AND broke up with me? Shouldn't it be me the one that's mad? haha please, help me understand!
My ex acts like he hates me even though he broke up with me after cheating?
What Guys Said 1
To be honest with or not you made him feel bad or that he wasn't a good boyfriend for you. That is no excuse to cheat on you. If he didn't like the way you treating him in the relationship, well he should of communicated with you, if he didn't that is his problem and not yours. after all your not a mind reader.
I would suggest you, just forget about him, and ignore him. If you worry so much what other people think of you, you will become their prisoner. You don't owe him anything, and he doesn't owe anything.
If he can't act like civilized human being and be a man with you. Then he is not worth it. You can't change people, If they keep treating like shit, then all you can do , set boundaries with him, and them carry with their life. You go your way in life, and he goes his.2
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