Every time I think I'm finally starting to get somewhere with getting over my ex boyfriend. Suddenly he says something or does something that brings me straight back to where I started. OR I think about the relationship, or see something that reminds me of it and suddenly I'm left feeling like shit! I shouldn't feel like this still it's been 4 months, he took me for granted and I know it was the best decision for the two of us.
My feelings have definitely decreased since the break up but there is still something there.
Why can't I get over him? And why is it taking so long? All I want is to be completely detached from him EMOTIONALLY.
Most Helpful Guy
Its only human to think about your ex. Whether you liked them still or not. They meant someone to you. If you really want to move on from everything simply break off all forms of contact.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well- because he was an important person in your life, no one will ever replace or compare but the next person can certain be better and have another special place in your heart, therefor the place that your ex is taking will become smaller. You have to look at it like this- you feel like shit, why would you want to waste time being sad and feeling crappy about someone who probably doesn't feel the same. He could be going out having so much fun and still tell you things that would keep you grounded on thinking about him. Give yourself time, honestly stop contact it's clearly not working and you aren't capable of moving on when you're still in contact with him. Best of luck x1