I really need to talk to my ex. I've been on one week of contact and it's been extremely tough. I can't sleep because my mind won't shut off, I can hardly eat, and I'm stressing myself out so bad that I'm making myself sick because I want to talk to him. I don't want to send him a long message telling him how I feel because he won't respond to it, I would like to send him a short text asking if we could talk on the phone. I have a lot to say, and bombarding him with 10 page text messages would be a little too much. We were suppose to be working things out so we could get back together, but every thing changed last week when he brought his ex back. I'm hurting pretty bad from it that's why I haven't texted him for a week. What should I do I'm driving myself crazy?
Most Helpful Guy
You need to chill and let this thing play out over time.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You need to take time for yourself. Do not text him or call him or have any contact with him on social media AT ALL. Go out with friends, visit with family, get involved in some hobby/activity. It's still a fresh wound, and anything you say to him won't be coming from a rational place. If the ex is back in the picture, there is nothing you can do or say to change it. Talking to him could possibly be the worst thing because you aren't giving him the space and freedom to make his own conclusion and are trying to convince him of yours instead. He may or may not ever come back, but even if he doesn't you'll be ok and you will find someone better! And if he does come back, you will have had time to take care of yourself in get in a better frame of mind and you may even decide he wasn't the one after all!1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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