So I kind of got together with my partner on the rebound over 10 years ago. I have never loved him passionately but he's a lovely kind guy not bad looking with a good job. I fell pregnant and although I wanted to have the children I knew I didn't want to be tied to this man. When I said I was going to split with him friends told me to stay as it would be too tough coping with newborn twins on my own. He's a wonderful dad, we don't argue and allow each other our freedom, but I just don't love him in a passionate way. I have never cheated but have been tempted many times. I'm now in my late thirties and am starting to think if I don't do something now am I going to regret it for the rest of my life but I'm also scared 1) how my children will cope 2) if I will meet someone bearing in mind I'm almost 40!!! Any advice or opinions I've already spoken to him about splitting up but am getting scared and wondering if I'm doing the right thing
Settling for the easy life?
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You know something. I see this all the time. A girl stays with a guy because it easier. Instead of dealing with the fact of being alone and facing pain. It's really screwy thing you did to this guy even if you didn't mean to but still! I say at 40 it will be hard but when there's a will there a way! You want love passion you better figure yourself out first and find your passion! When you find it a passion that thing worth living... U will most likely bump into love!0
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