My mother is my best friend and now that I am 20 I am sick and tired of seeing her unhappy. My mother feels more like a roommate than a wife. I still live with my parents so I know, firsthand, exactly why she feels that way. My stepfather does not buy groceries, cook, clean, or do anything besides work and pay the rent.
My stepfather is about 15 years older than my mom. He was also in the Army and has traveled the world already. My mother would like to travel but he is not interested because has already done that. They do not go out whatsoever because he is a "home body". He doesn't do anything or go anywhere. So basically they work then come home and that is it; no social life whatsoever.
This isn't the first time my mother and mentioned separating from him. I, personally want her to separate from him but this is not about me.
I have an idea that they shuld separate that way she can experience life on her own and get some "fresh air". I also thought while they separated it would be a good idea for them to sort of "date" again. And possibly go to a counselor, a neutral ground/person.
I know she is scared but I know she wants the separation to happen. What are some things that they could do while they are separated to strengthen their realtionship instead of just letting it die and ending in divorce. I don't want them to divorce I just want them to have some freedom and reconnect. I love my mother and stepfather but my mother is my number one priority.
Any ideas or suggestions are welcome.
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