Most Helpful Girl
Don't. I think you must let go a bit, you broke up and you're wondering if you did move things too quickly, it's too early to send him a message. I was in a somewhat similar situation with my ex, but I wasn't about to give in, and go back to him. If he wanted things to be different between us, he would talk to me. I didn't say anything to him for about 2 months before I asked him a simple question. With the way things are now, maybe just give yourself some space as well, do fun things and don't worry about what happened. If you don't feel like it's a good idea, then don't message him.