Most Helpful Guy
Yeah. If he told you that, you should respect it. Unless the reason on why he don't want to be in a relationship is something you can't change. But if he meant that he don't want to be in a relationship with you.. then don't hook up with him, maybe you're just not his type or he have a girlfriend alrd...
Most Helpful Girl
Since you have these pre-existing feelings about him , asking for a hook up would only make them grow stronger.
You will really allow yourself to be even more crushed.
Let him go.
You will eventually get completely over him.