Most Helpful Guy
just for the basic fact that a partner does not want to even discuss solvable issues tells you a lot of this persons character. that disinterest is all I need to know that this person is the right one to share my day with, even if was just a friend. That shows nothing of a friend what so ever.
so my answer is definitely Yes it is OK !
Most Helpful Girl
If your partner won't discuss the issue and won't co-operate and it is a serious issue to you tgen yes. A key part of a relationship is comunication and respect. If they dont see it as a big deal andd you do then ut will only escalate as the relationship progresses.
If you could elaberate on what the issue is i coupd give better advise on what to do, but i think if you feel strongly about it and they dont seem to care, then that is a whole new problem on its own.