There is this guy I dated and long story short he ended up cheating on me. I was really heartbroken and he shattered my self confidence and my trust issues have increased.
Recently he messaged me saying he wants me back and that it was a huge mistake he broke it off with me. I felt really guilty and he made me feel like I wasn't the victim but he was.
I have a new guy and because of this cheating I have trust issues and I don't believe any compliments he tells me and it sucks to be honest.
As for the ex I told him I would get back together with him because like I said he made me feel like I was the one who cheated. So I decided to let him go yesterday and I'd still be his friend because he gets depressed so my question is was it right for me to be selfish? I couldn't go back to my ex but now I'm scared this might lead to him doing something crazy like suicide. I'm just confused and don't know what else to do.
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step 1. cut off all communication with your ex
step 2. remove all reminders of him from you life.
step 3. allow time do pass while u heal then grow.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE