so my ex won't talk to me and hasn't since she broke up with me 3 weeks. im upset she won't talk. we were together for 2 years. she has no idea i know her password for find an iphone... to make me feel good, a little payback, i want to stick her phone in lost mode... good idea or bad?
Most Helpful Girl
You're pissed off your ex isn't talking to you after breaking up, so you thought being a dick to her will suddenly make her realise how great of a guy you are.
Most Helpful Guy
Getting payback seems like a logical idea in your mind right now. She hurt you and it only makes sense that you should make her feel some sort of pain. But what are you really getting payback for? Her making a choice to not be with you? Your pain, though it must hurt, can be used in two ways: to hurt others or learn so you can help yourself and others in the future. She is someone you loved for two years, so you need to ask yourself what kind of person you are. Are you the kind of guy whose quality is weakened by the actions of others or do you stand strong and prove your resolve by not punishing someone. You know the truth, that no matter how much you hurt her or try to hurt her, you will never be satisfied. I know you're hurting right now, but this is the time to show yourself that you are strong and have qualities that are set for improvement. We grow in times of struggle and heartache. Don't squander these moments with thoughts of her, but rather focus on yourself until you're ready to move to something, and someone better.0