a few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I loved him and the time being for our relationship but towards the end I found myself being more stressed than happy. It's been two days and at first I wasn't really feeling anything, not even remorse for him while he was crying. But now that I've been thinking of everything I don't know if I should've ended things or not. I broke it off due to something that had happened months ago and I just couldn't get over it, so to get over it I also told him for now to not contact me. Now I don't know if I should try to contact him or if I should leave him alone and try to move on.
Most Helpful Guy
Perhaps you should try to contact him, and tell how you're feeling.1
Most Helpful Girl
You are finding Yourself with what I call The "Missing the Kissing" and the His and Her History you both shared, @Lexiexoxo and dollar to donuts, he is feeling this way today.
It's all fine and good to say "I want out" when you Are Still In this relationship, and okay, maybe all fun and all when the writing isn't on the wall for 'Two days.'
However, '2 years' and a few days and hours later, you are finding that you are Missing Him, what you had and Now... You are sad.
Contact him and tell him you want to talk. Tell him that maybe Open lines of convo wasn't applied enough during this Hasty Break up, and you want to talk things out. Who knows, maybe you Will.. Make up.
Being together for as long as you have, I feel you Both deserve a chance at romance. I also feel that before the Split, a Break instead for more Space and to think, may have been the best way to go.
Good luck. xx1