so i been dating this guy since i was 14 years old and now I'm 24 i just recently find out that he cheated on me and have a kid with this other girl. now i dont know if this is true or not when i heard it i ask him about it and he denia it than i got a picter of them together all of them he the kid and the girl and i ask again out of no where he like we need to take a break, because i m tried try to tell u that it not true. than about a month ago he text me we need to talk i siad ok, he call talking about how he sorry for breaking up with me and he want us back together and all these things. now i dont know what to do, i dont know if i should just turst him and get back together with him or just cut my losses and move on. i really do love this guy, he was my frist love and frist kiss and frist everything i dont know how to walk away from that i need help on how to do it.
Most Helpful Guy
if you're sure this person is cheating on you then you should try and move on, regardless of how hard that will be. if he cheated on you, and he's lying to you, that ain't good, that shows he hasn't got much respect for you. you're worth a lot more than what he thinks you are worth. The pain of moving on from this relationship might just be a lot less painful than being with a person who is willing to cheat on you. I'm going with the fact he cheated on you remember so do make sure you know he's deffonately cheating on you or not, okay.0
Most Helpful Girl
Going back would honestly be pathetic. You've bee together for 10 years yet he has a child thats not with you. And he broke up with you after he cheated. Wow. Move on. Im sure you can do better. Also im not sure if you're native in English but proof reading would have helped0