Honest and respectful opinions please, my friend is in great agony because her boyfriend cheated on her...
Most Helpful Guy
You go out and meet new people. Distract yourself with hobbies and work. Just live life and eventually the weight will be lifted off of your shoulders.1
Most Helpful Girl
Betrayal is very painful , and it Isn't a case of getting over it, it's a case of getting through it. She will probably question her worth, so tell her , although she feels worthless to this guy, she will be priceless to another. Cheating on her is a statement about his character , not hers.
Time doesn't heal the pain, it's what you do with your time which heals it. So she should keep her mind on things other than him, spend time with family and friends, try something new, and keep active.
The most important thing is for her to not let it define her in a negative way. She shouldn't start believing all guys will cheat on her, because that is not true. Hopefully as time goes on she will be thankful that she is still not with the person she almost settled for, and one day she will meet a guy who feels lucky to have her as part of his life, a guy who will respect her , and has her best interests at heart 💚1