It's been a week ago today that my ex broke my heart and left me for someone else again (technically he's just seeing her with no plans of getting back with her), but my heart still breaks. I want to talk to him to tell him how I feel but he won't care, I'm having a hard time accepting that it's over. The things that he said were so painful. He got angry over some really dumb things and he told me not to text him again. I wasn't trying to make him mad I was just trying to have a conversation with him. Even though he said those hurtful things I remained calm the entire time, I never begged or pleaded for him to come back. The reason why he said we can't have a second chance was extremely dumb. I'm finding myself online every day trying to find ways to get him back, trying to figure out if what he told me was just to push me away, but nothing.
He's in my dreams constantly and I can't get rid of him. I found myself crying this morning because I miss him so much. I know it's only been a week, but I feel like everything is coming at me full force. I've been hoping that he would contact me to see how I'm doing or I'm holding up but he hasn't he doesn't care, he's too preoccupied with her to even reach out to me. I feel so betrayed that he went behind my back again and brought his rebound back. How can I get past this? I want to talk to him, but he told me not to text him again. 7 days no contact is hard, I want him back, but he has her. He said that we weren't ever going to get together. Could he change his mind? I loved him so much i would have done anything for him and he tosses me away yet again. My friends keep saying that he'll come back, but i doubt it. I doubt it, especially with all the hurtful things that he said. I know it's only been 7 days, but I'm starting to give up and lose hope of any possible reconciliation. I'm trying to move on, but I can't stop thinking about him.
Most Helpful Guy
First month is the worst. 1st.. Melatonin will help you sleep and its all natural. Get some sleep, it will help keep your head clear. 2nd. Quit making excuses for him, once I stopped doing that for my ex days are becoming easier to deal with.
I will pray for you..1
Most Helpful Girl
You should never give up hope, there is always someone better out there even though you might not think that right now. And trust me I know how you're feeling but you need to try and move on or else you're just going to continue torturing yourself into believing that he'll come back to you one day. Keep busy, maybe find a new hobby. Paint, cook, bake, dance, meditate, do some yoga, be with nature, hang out with your family/friends, meet new people. Honestly life is too short to spend your days crying over someone who doesn't care about you (been there done that) one day he'll realize what a gem he lost and by then honey it'll be far too late but that's his loss. Everything will be fine love, the world keeps spinning. Good luck -xx1