It's been a week ago today that my ex broke my heart and left me for someone else again (technically he's just seeing her with no plans of getting back with her), but my heart still breaks. I want to talk to him to tell him how I feel but he won't care, I'm having a hard time accepting that it's over. The things that he said were so painful. He got angry over some really dumb things and he told me not to text him again. I wasn't trying to make him mad I was just trying to have a conversation with him. Even though he said those hurtful things I remained calm the entire time, I never begged or pleaded for him to come back. The reason why he said we can't have a second chance was extremely dumb. I'm finding myself online every day trying to find ways to get him back, trying to figure out if what he told me was just to push me away, but nothing.
He's in my dreams constantly and I can't get rid of him. I found myself crying this morning because I miss him so much. I know it's only been a week, but I feel like everything is coming at me full force. I've been hoping that he would contact me to see how I'm doing or I'm holding up but he hasn't he doesn't care, he's too preoccupied with her to even reach out to me. I feel so betrayed that he went behind my back again and brought his rebound back. How can I get past this? I want to talk to him, but he told me not to text him again. 7 days no contact is hard, I want him back, but he has her. He said that we weren't ever going to get together. Could he change his mind? I loved him so much i would have done anything for him and he tosses me away yet again. My friends keep saying that he'll come back, but i doubt it. I doubt it, especially with all the hurtful things that he said. I know it's only been 7 days, but I'm starting to give up and lose hope of any possible reconciliation. I'm trying to move on, but I can't stop thinking about him.
Most Helpful Guy
First month is the worst. 1st.. Melatonin will help you sleep and its all natural. Get some sleep, it will help keep your head clear. 2nd. Quit making excuses for him, once I stopped doing that for my ex days are becoming easier to deal with.
I will pray for you..1
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly break ups are rough you will have your good days and you will have your bad days those are inevitable. We can't control the way people act and or ability to accept how we feel- he doesn't know how to deal with your feelings so he's resorting to the opposite way of how someone should deal. I however think you shouldn't try to contact him because no matter what you say you'll never be okay with it unless he wants to get back together, you'll find all sorts of reasons to talk to him and try to get specific answers that are not there. Focus on yourself, you're only feeling what you feel now- months or even weeks later I promise you will feel different if you allow yourself to have the space you need. STOP all contact. Why would you want someone back who has the ability to treat you like you're disposable and immediately replaceable? Goodluck0