I just feel like I don't love him as much as he loves me. I don't love him at all but he thinks I'm his world. I know there is a girl out their that will love him and cherish him for all he is... I just am not that girl.
I've decided to end things. What is the least hardest way to end it with someone. He is really sensitive when it comes to this stuff. I don't want to say the wrong thing and wreck or break him to pieces. I would offer to be friends but understand if he doesn't want to be one.
He says I'm his world and he loves me so much I'm the only good thing in his world right now. The only one that believes in him and encourages him. I just don't know how to end it but Im not happy in this relationship. He puts me on too high of a pedastal. If I end it he'll be crushed but I know I just can't be with him guys I really don't know what to do.
I tried making it work it just doesn't.
I don't want this to be the thing that breaks the camels back.
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As Hard as it may be and as Sad it Will be, not only for Him but for you here, dear, it has to be Done because you cannot go on, Sugar coating the Inevitable, which I feel, deep down, he probably may have gotten a small hint already by even an action that showed Him... I don't love him at all.
You have been hi sEverything, his life support and the Best thing that probably Has ever happened to him. But there were probably moments when a hint of a hymn and a haw and all, was a tiny writing on his wall and he may have seen it but you Continued to etch it in stone without being Cold about it.
Sit him down and do this After the upcoming holiday, may I say, and tell him what you feel. Tell him you care about him and always will but Honestly, You are Not ready to be in a relationship right now and friendship is the way you are hoping it can be.
Of course you can only Imagine how he will feel or what he may do, maybe walk away and be angry at you, but it is something that has to be done, no use in pretending, because in the long run, That too would be just Cheating you both out of something in life that may be better for both of you down the road.
This will surely hurt you as much as him, and you will feel sad and bad, but if he really has all this love and admiration for you, he will either see it your way Or... The highway.
Good luck. xx0