He has however been spending time chatting with a separated women from work. They talk 3-4 hours per day.
he also said that he doesn't care if I make up stuff about him having affairs etc and that he doesn't love me, followed by "move the f on"
is he serious? Did I mean nothing to him?
Most Helpful Guy
After being dumped, 6 months would be too long to go back to the wife, I'm said to say. I can't stand people who do that, as it is. He may have had affairs, hence, he doesn't care. He has told you to move on, so it's quite an idea to do that. If he then comes back, "throw" it all back in his face, quoting him what he has been quoting you, such as the moving on. Teach him the lesson!!!
As to the question did you mean anything to him? Only he could give his honest opinion. It might be an idea to think about how he was with you during the pre-marriage relationship and the marriage, and piece things together to suss out why he left you.
I am 34 and never had a serious relationship, yet I have witnessed a lot of relationships fail for certain reasons. My brother is 7 years older than me and is on his second marriage. Some marriages work, some don't.
There are so many things to think about when it comes to "Why didn't we work out?" "What could I have done to make it better?" It might have been that he was the wrong type for you. I find that people meet in Nightclubs, and looking for possible partners in nightclubs, are mainly thinking of one thing and it ain't marriage.
I've got a heart of gold and wear it on my sleeve, and I believe it is for this reason that I have never genuinely been with anyone.
Hope you find happiness whatever you choose to do. I believe your "husband" isn't worth the tears for doing such a thing to you, keep a strong heart and it should carry you on to where you are to go next.
Most Helpful Girl
It's high time now here, dear, to put this All to bed and Get this in your Own Head... He is serious.
He is Not Ready Nor Raring to be with you and "Us" in a Real Relationship, and along with being a Cheat sheet to boot, he is Not going to come home to try and make things Right... He is enjoying his own life with no strife, to his own Delight.
It may not be this 'Separated woman from work' Tomorrow, but Others who like Yourself... He will only bring sorrows.
See a lawyer and unload this loser. He is Not just Talking, he is Hinting and not Hymning nor Hawing with his own Pawing.
Good luck, you deserve better. xx