One of my best friends made out with my ex boyfriend a month after we broke up. at the time we weren't super close friends and I know that it shouldn't bother me because I didn't find out about it till months later but I still get upset by it just because I feel like a trust was violated.
shes my one of my best girlfriends but I can't help but feel upset
btw. I found out not by her telling me but when I said I was a great kisser and she said oh I know. and when I asked how I she would know, that's when she told me reluctantly knowing I would be upset.
should I not care since its in the past or do I still have a right to hold a little bit of a grudge. she new how much he meant to me.
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This is like what happened to me around two years ago. I had a boyfriend that my best friend liked but she never told me. But me and him dated for about 7 months and I fell for him.
When I was out of state visiting my cousin, he called me and dumped me on the phone. Like he wouldn't of waited. But anyway I called my best friend crying and her tone of voice seemed like she was happy. I didn't want to leave my cousin, so I wouldn't have to deal with the drama back home, but I had too.
A month later, my best friend and my ex boyfriend were dating. It killed me, I was completely broken, and she even know I still loved him, she told me "sorry but I have to do something for me for once." Yeah that's what she said. So I tried being friends with her and tried hanging out with them, but I couldn't handle it anymore. That's when I completely ended our friendship and just tried to move on.
Now to this day, they are still going out. It still sucks seeing them together still, but I got over it. Me and her talk a little bit but I will never trust her ever again, and will never forgive her, and she knows that. I will always have that hate towards her. But It's not just her fault too, its my ex boyfriends too.
But really if you move on and NOT hold a grudge then I promise you, you will be okay. Go and find a new guy and I'm sure he will be better than the other.1