OK, so I dated this girl for a few months, dumped her a couple years ago, whatever now she's one of my best friends (yes it really does happen) and I've gotten close with her family... And attracted to her little sister. She's only a couple years younger than me, so it's not like a pedo thing. She's hot as hell with a great personality and a gorgeous smile. Got the sister's number, and we text and stuff and are on a friendly basis, but I'm wary about flirting with her, because, I mean, I did date her sister... is she totally off limits or what? If I DID decide to go for it, what would be the best way to go about it? Is there any way to do it without ruining my friendship with my ex?
oh p.s. I still make out with the ex occasionally, but it's just like a casual makeout-buddy kinda thing, neither of us wants to go serious. I don't know if that changes anything.
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Ask your ex if it is okay. You should get her permission before you try to go anywhere with the sister. If she says yeah then go for it. If she says no then probably best to stay away. You can try going behind the ex's back but you will probably lose that friendship and you have to remember they are sisters, they are way more loyal to each other than to you. So you could end up with nothing at all.1