Then I found out she cheated one with 2 guys and one she admitted to having sex with and spent the night with him... Her excuse nothing she said we were perfect she said I complimented her. Said the guy was an ex of hers and he has big muscles and that turned her on and she added "who wouldn't sleep with the guy he was hot..."
So I had to do what needed to be done and break it off I was crushed and got ugly with her I told her I want her out of my life. She begged me to stay promised not to hurt me again but the damage is done. I'm almost 40 and she is 40 and my hopes and dreams were crushed. She wanted to get married on a beach and get a house together...
That said we were suppose to be together for thanks giving now I'm here alone and depressed and I don't know why miss her after what she did. It's been 4 weeks since the break up when will this pain go away?
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The pain will go away when you let her go completely out of your mind.
that excuse she gave you was awful and pretty much explains her shallowness. So getting over her should be easier than it is for you. Any guy that has been cheated on is very creep-ed out by her reasoning. you are so smart to break it off. good for you.
Ok here we go: she did you a giant favor by showing you that she does not and is not part of the rest of your story. there is great things ahead and she just simply isn't part of your plan. you have so many amazing chapters ahead in your book of life and it is time now to write the best part. This is the part in your life where you take a deep look at at yourself find everything in your life that you are grateful for. That will allow you to focus on those parts of your life now. Pain is a great motivator to search for answers about what really makes you happy. While you are in that process you will notice that she truly was not meant for you and that you deserve much better and most importantly you will awaken to the idea that this break was a blessing and she is doing you a favor. because now you are at the beginning of something greater.
What is it that you really desire. write it down ask your Creator for it. Believe in your whole heart that you will receive it. and finally receive it in your soul as if you already posses it.
Is it true love? or maybe better business advances? etc.. everything and anything that is meant to be yours will become effortlessly given to your asking. with true deep faith in every positive outlook you can muster.
Doubt and the past has no room in your new chapter's of life.
Let her go -turn the page- and go achieve !