Relationship seems doomed, sad part is is that we have a newborn who's 2 weeks old. Who else thinks this relationship is doomed?
What Girls Said 1
So I'm going to try not to get too long... okay so you said the past several months you guys have been disconnected. So she was pregnant which is stressful in itself. If you guys are anything like a lot of couples, especially during pregnancy you're worried about money, you're worried about the future, you're worried about getting everything ready for the new addition. There is a lot going on. All of those things are stressful and it sounds like she is venting her stresses on you, especially with the baby here now and I'm sure you guys aren't getting much sleep or free time. It's not okay for her to treat you how she feels, but I think often times we all tend to do this sadly. Maybe tell her to take a day for herself, you'll keep the baby, and tell her to go out with friends or whatever just so she can get some fresh air. Then hopefully she will be in a better mood when she arrives and tell her you dont want to fight, just talk. Ask her what's going on. There could be something bothering her that she isn't saying. Sometimes women expect men to be mind readers, terrible fail lol. Remember though that you guys have a baby now, so whatever direction you take needs to be the best for that child. But I think you guy should at least try. I always say a year. Love isn't easy. It's really hard and it takes time. Give it a year of you guys working on it and reevaluate then to see if you guys want to continue down that road, maybe progress will be made, or if you think it would better to separate. Good luck!
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