I guess the real q. is, "Am I overreacting?", "Should I break up with him?" And, "What should I say?"
*note. I am very nice person (NOT BEING BRAGGY, JUST GIVING U INFO.) (infact, I feel bad ab. even saying that^) ... continued... I am gentle and kind. I don't cuss, I am self respected, I have boundaries. He knows this. And he should* understand. So what should I do? I know he'll be hurt (I would too if I were him; I mean, everything's going great!) I really need help, and tips and suggestions and comments! Please. I wouldn't be asking this, if I didn't really need help!
In advance, thank you for even clicking on this. Means a lot. Absolutely ANY comments would help!! Thank you. Have a blessed day. :)
AND HAS ANYONE EVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION? WHAT HAVE YOU DONE?
Thank you thank you thank you!!!
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At your age relationships aren't supposed to last long. It's normal.
You're learning about all these new feelings and new situations, and each person is going to have their own comfort levels, likes/dislikes, and want to progress at their own pace.
It can hurt to end a relationship, no doubt, especially when it's not because one person did something horribly wrong.
Bottom line is if you're not really comfortable with the relationship and feel it should be over, all you need to do is tell him that and that it's over. I know, easier said than done, but better to end it now than be unhappy or end up in a situation where you're doing things that you don't really want or that make it even more difficult to break up.
Hope this is at least a little helpful... :-)
by the way you'll look back at this period of time in a few years and it really won't seem that bad.
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