Most Helpful Girl
You get the lawyer to contact her, that's what they're for.
Most Helpful Guy
If you want a divorce, go see an attorney. He will locate her for service of process. Why would you need to talk to her?
Get a lawyer to do it
You don't need to say a word -- nor should you. Let an attorney do that work.
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