Well here's the story!
My ex and I went out for 6years and broke up 3months ago. My ex (let's call him Mike) was a wonderful boyfriend, he gave me the world but I wasn't the best girlfriend, I was really insecure and that started arguments.
He broke up with me due to the fact he had to and not that he wanted to. So, I moved out and we were trying to see how things would go with us living apart. Due to a huge argument a couple of weeks ago, he has stopped all contact with me. I have tried emailing him and calling him with no avail. I've been full of apologies.
I bumped into him 1week ago on a night out and asked him why he was ignoring me, he told me it was because I broke his heart then he ran off...I'm not sure if this was a cop out! His friend then came over to me and angrily said "leave Mike alone!". I have only contacted him once by email telling him to get in touch because I have a number of expensive items belonging to him.
I have noticed that he has just recently been replying to a girl's Facebook messages with a kiss. The messages appear to be just regular chit chat but I'm scared it will become more. Am I reading too much into things?
By the looks of it he is going out and having a great time, surely that isn't someone who is heartbroken.
I'm confused, do you think he will ever talk to me?
How much space should I give him? Because at the moment he is avoiding me at all costs.
All answers greatly appreciated!
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It seems to me that you still have feelings for your ex. Let's face it, okay, he broke up with you and though you still were in contact for a while, maybe that was his way of getting closure. He's probably moving on now to other girls since things with you pretty much stayed rocky. I understand that you want to still be in contact with him, but maybe after that last fight it was just too much for him. Or maybe he just decided that he was going to find someone else. You are together so you can't make him talk to you, ya know. And besides, most exes end up hating each other. Friendship is rare in tose situations so good luck. I hope you two can be friends and talk again soon, but for now I would just stop trying to contact him all together. maybe that will make him wonder what you're doing and then come to you. go out and have fun like him and then maybe he'll see that and come back. Don't worry. You've just got to wait it out.0