He was my first boyfriend. Only. And we were together for a year. He was cheating on me and I loved him. I'm afraid to love again. I'm afraid to trust again. I know not all men are the same but I just don't want to go through falling in love again and then find out he was cheating. I have not given another guy a chance and I've been single for about 6 months. I need advice.
Most Helpful Guy
You can't punish future guys for your exs mistakes. Take things slow, but you have to realize that not all guys will cheat on you, and unless you want to end up alone, you'll need to have trust2
Most Helpful Girl
Take some time out for yourself and your self growth. The same thing happened with me 7 months back. I stopped thinking about him and this whole cheating fiassco by travelling to dfferent cities, learning a new language, watching movies especially kill bill ;-), spiritually connecting with myself and building up my confindence again. While I was doing these stuff I fell in love with myself again. So... just relax and first fall in love with yourself then think about falling in love with someone else.1