I really find it selfish, i dont know, I've been dumped before and its just something out of control and really breaks our self esteem because we feel as if we werent enough and didn't even care about how we would feel.
what you guys think?
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Well it's a tough one and I would say it depends really on the severity of the situation, for example if a woman leaves a guy because he was taking her for granted, taking advantage of her and was physically and emotionally abusive in this case she would not be selfish to leave him, but if the guy has only been nice to her and has treated her like a queen and still the woman leaves him because she got bored of him, or because there was no passion, then it would be a little selfish of her to do so.
However it's also true that your happiness is what should matter most to you, what you want is most important and you're right on that one. It's a tough question to answer, it mainly depends on the situation.