Is it weird sending your ex a Christmas present?

I want to contact him, but I'm afraid what he's answer is going to be.
So is it okay to send a present? With a card?
Is that pushy or sweet?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Dunno, although I'm in close contact with my ex she specifically told me not to give her presents anymore.
    I guess it depends on the terms that you have broke up on, but since you are not in contact anymore, eh it may look a bit pushy and uncomfortable especially if they have moved on already.

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    • Yes, I agree a little.. It's just that I have this feeling he is not over me, nor I am with him, but of course I can't know for sure. I thought maybe since it's Christmas, I could subtle hint that I miss him without acutally calling him, and then see how he reacts from the present?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well if you to aren't on speaking teems or have the type of relationship, then it might come across as weird.

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    • Why? How will he react?

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    • No problem, thanks for the advice :)

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What Guys Said 1

  • Yes its nice, unless you place a deadly spider or a snake inside it.

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What Girls Said 9

  • i think it's a tad pushy tbh. don't throw yourself onto someone who may not give a damn about u =/

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  • nah don't do it!

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  • If you're simply afraid of contacting him, then sending him a gift is a bad idea.

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  • I think it's a bit pushy... Don't do it :/

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  • What do you gain from doing this?

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    • I hope maybe he will be touched and wish to contact me? I don't know...

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    • Have you tried at least contacting him first? Sending a gift out of the blue may be abit daunting.

    • No, I haven't tried.. I'm afraid he might not pick up or answer in a mean way.. haha

  • I would say it would be ok if you two are on speaking terms. But just out of the blue when you two aren't talking to one another is odd.

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  • Contacting him would be better than just sending a random gift. It could just come across as creepy, weird or pushy.
    Just send him a Christmas text at Christmas instead if anything.

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  • I think it's fine. It's just being nice/civil

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  • Don't. do. it

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    • Why? How will he react?

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