My now ex-boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me yesterday out of anger. We had been having a lot of fights, and yesterday's fight pretty much set him to break up with me in text even though he was the one to start it. He deleted me from his social medias, called me a hypocrite, pessimistic, etc. I was angry and heartbroken. I dropped off everything he ever gave me (drawings, stuffed animals, etc), and when I went to give it to him I wouldn't give him a chance to talk. Later that night, I eventually did let him talk, and he ends up telling me that he messed up so badly, that he is so sorry and that he will fix it. I want him back, but he has a lot of things to fix about himself. I'm just heartbroken, and it's hard not to think about him when he keeps texting me. I don't know what to do. I don't even know what he means by "I will fix this, I will. You'll see", "I gotta act now".
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly. I don't think you should really get back with him. Im not sayingoing he doesn't love you, but it doesn't show when he's deleting everything so easy out of anger and saying cruel things to you. I'm a guy, and I know saying things out of spite doesn't mean love... just means he needs time to grow. I honestly think he wants you because he probably believes he can't get anyone else since everything is different once you're in a long term relationship. Dating life becomes difficult since men have it harder and the game changes every day. I say for now, just relax, tell him that you both need space to yourself and to stop texting you. Don't let your 2 year relationship define you. I understand that you care for him, but if things were hard for awhile, you guys either need to cmunicate more or need e from one another to understand yourself and grow... and thenjoy get back into the game.0
Most Helpful Girl
Someone who cared about you wouldn't have broken up w/you in the 1st place. He thought he had the upper hand, that you would come crawling back to him and maybe even submit to what he wanted, but you made that break up final by bringing over the stuff he gave you. I loved my ex and it broke me to break up w/him, but he didn't want to listen to how I felt (he took me for granted), after the break up he made tons of promises about changing, treating me better etc. I didn't take him back and as much as I wanted to, I knew he would never treat me right. If he had truly cared about me he would have listened to me w/out hurting me. Do not take him back, if he loved you and respected you, he wouldn't break up w/you out of anger. Someone who cares about another person wouldn't risk doing that as they know that a break up is pretty final.0