It breaks my heart every time I think about it. We weren't even official, he forgot my birthdays, he never brought me a single flower or a chocolate in two years. He never took me out for dinners - not even on my birthday. He never did anything to show me that he loved me.
What he did was, keep me in his pocket with empty promises of marriage once he's ready, and have flings with other girls. He openly talked about them to me.
And when I finally asked him for the commitment. He told me it wasn't going to work.
So I left.
I haven't looked back in 3 months. It hurts the most. But there's no point if he doesn't want to be with me. It doesn't matter how I feel.
He did drop a message in recently trying to revive contact but I didn't want that. He still wasn't apologizing for all the misbehaving. I made our brief conversation as cold as I could. He told me to take care of myself. And I didn't reply but it hurts the most.
Most Helpful Guy
How can you move on? That man stole 2 years of your life. You were never treated the way a human being should be treated. You just keep on walking, and never turn around cause he's not worth it, and you know it.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going to assume you all were having sex? When a guy gets what he wants without a commitment, a lot of the times a commitment never comes. I'm really sorry you went through that though. I just went through a break up myself. Just realize if he didn't want to be with you, you deserve better than that. You deserve someone who wants to stay by your side and wants to call you his. You'll find him someday 👍🏼😊1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE