It breaks my heart every time I think about it. We weren't even official, he forgot my birthdays, he never brought me a single flower or a chocolate in two years. He never took me out for dinners - not even on my birthday. He never did anything to show me that he loved me.
What he did was, keep me in his pocket with empty promises of marriage once he's ready, and have flings with other girls. He openly talked about them to me.
And when I finally asked him for the commitment. He told me it wasn't going to work.
So I left.
I haven't looked back in 3 months. It hurts the most. But there's no point if he doesn't want to be with me. It doesn't matter how I feel.
He did drop a message in recently trying to revive contact but I didn't want that. He still wasn't apologizing for all the misbehaving. I made our brief conversation as cold as I could. He told me to take care of myself. And I didn't reply but it hurts the most.
Most Helpful Guy
i can understand. you know what he still hurt yourself. i know you are getting hurt and frustrated about her when you think. you still need him. which is not going to happen he don't want to turn around back as he have life you have your own life try to live on that i know people here mostly say that you can have a great guy that is true i don't know when i am still searching for a girl. you can't get his message or any reply from him how much you try0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going to assume you all were having sex? When a guy gets what he wants without a commitment, a lot of the times a commitment never comes. I'm really sorry you went through that though. I just went through a break up myself. Just realize if he didn't want to be with you, you deserve better than that. You deserve someone who wants to stay by your side and wants to call you his. You'll find him someday 👍🏼😊1