I believe its because women allow them to.
think about it...
1.You start to notice all the signs
2. He Has done it before.
3.He's thinking sh*t I can do it again. I just have to get better and not getting caught.
4. or he can really be sorry and never do it again. Then want to be "All He Can Be" like he's going to the Army.
In the end its your choice ladies do you stay or do you go... (RUN GIRL RUN...) lol
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Honestly, I have gotten over the fact that most men will cheat. I have not accepted it but I do get it, I am not saying that it is right but I understand that it doesn't necessarily mean that their girl is not the one or isn't doing what she is supposed to do.
I can't say that I would leave the man that cheated on me just because it happened once but a lot of factors matter to me... who he cheated with, was it in my home, was it a one night stand or long term, is he willing to give her up completely and do I really think that he will not do it again. I know that this may sound crazy but I must be honest here.
I have been cheated on before and I know how hard it can be, but because so many men fall weak or short it's hard to keep starting over again and again because he f***ed a slut. I am not saying that it wouldn't almost kill me internally but that is why so many women stay with a man that has cheated on her.
Guys that have fallen in love and their girlfriend cheated on them are the men that can identify with the amount of pain it actually causes your loved one. Men are not as likely to stay as women are but it hurts nonetheless. I hope and pray that my boyfriend doesn't cheat but will I run out of the relationship because I found out...Hard to say. I am not desperate, I'm a realist! Thanks for a great topic!0