I have been going out with a slightly introverted guy (he did not really know how to talk about his feelings) for 7-8 months. Things got physically and emotionally pretty quickly despite I was still pretty scarred with insecurity and fear from my previous relationship (I have been cheated on for a year). I depended on him a bit too much in terms of my happiness and emotions, but I didn't pick up any vital signs of distress from him. I was also heavily affected by the side effects of contraceptive pills and was pretty out of control with my emotions. We had a lot of fun times as well as a bit of arguments, things were pretty serious as he was the one who started mentioning moving out, getting married, kids etc so I thought he loved me a lot. A week ago, we had a small argument and I thought he was leaving me. I panicked and got out of control (cut myself), and he left me the next day saying he cannot cope in a relationship like this and I need to figure things out on my own and find my own happiness. A week later he came over to swap back our belongings, and I talked to him about agreeing with his decision and the steps I am taking to regain my confidence/improve myself. However, he appeared indifferent - said 'thank you for sharing and understanding' when I was done talking. I am not sure whether this is his mechanism of coping, or has he truly moved on and I have no chance of reconciliation even when I am better? We work in the same environment and I still have to see him everyday for the next four years as we complete our PhD.
Is there any chance of getting back together if my ex boyfriend appears to be indifferent towards me?
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I know how hurtful that is when a person you care for, doesn't care for you. I learned the hard way, my ex didn't care for me and he never would have. A person who cares about you will sit down and try to figure out what is going on. He doesn't care for you.0
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