My ex and I were together for a year. Lived together for the last 3 months. Our relationship was phenomenal for the first 10 months. Short story, I lost my job, got depressed and started to distance myself from her a bit. We worked very different hours so didn't see each other a lot but I still could of been a little more open about my feelings. 1 week before our 1 year anniversary and cruise we were suppose to go on, she told me to move out. I was confused, mad and stubborn. So I moved out found a place. The entire next month we texted told each other how much we loved each other and missed each other. She told me she loves me more than anything. I text her the next day to see if I could come talk to her and she basically told me that she is going through A LOT of family problems and if I was a good boyfriend I could of been there for her but I'm not so no I can't come over. I then apologized and told her I am still here for her. She then said that she needs space and time to heal so please let me be selfish and give me space because I don't owe you anything. This was 5 weeks ago. I tried contacting her a few times, got nothing in response, now I'm about 20 days into no contact and still dont know. I know she is drinking a lot and staying out late and I think hanging out with a guy from work. What does this mean? What do I do? Is this lost? I love this girl so much and I have taken responsibility for the break up. She is only 21, I'm 27, is she just unsure what she wants. She said she saw a future with me and could see us getting married.
My Ex-GF says she loves me more than anything, then the next day asks for space and time to heal and that she doesn't owe me anything. WHAT?
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Get the fuck over her, that's what. STOP contacting her, it only makes you look pathetic.
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