Why after the breakup has my ex turned so mean. The ignoring and all is pretty standard I know from breakups. But being angry when he does talk, refuses to see me as he thinks we will just have sex, which I've no intention in doing. And last night he said if he asked we all know I would show him my body. I said I wouldn't do that and he is seeing Someone new so he wouldn't ask me too. Why has he turned into such an asshole.