Ok, maybe im jealous but I got hurt badly by my ex cheating on me. I hope people can understand that?
However, as someone asked earlier they exposed their affair online.
I havnt done that because I dont wanna be the jealous partner, revenge type of guy. No one knows she's cheated. It wasn't just a one off either it was planned, several hook-ups when I wasn't around. Now, I honestly dont think we will get back together, But, seeing her suffering no consequencies (apart from losing me which I dont think she really cares tbh) means she's got away with it. Her image & reputation is still intact. Everyone thinks she's the fun girl to be around, theyre happy to have her in their life the sociable kinda girl who everyone loves, yet she's also capable of hurting & deceiving people, or me at least.
So yeah I won't air my dirty laundry, but on other hand I wish people knew the real her. So I am jealous & want revenge but in my own mind rather than actually telling people.
It hurts seeing people suffering no consequencies, yet im destroyed with zero self-esteem now because of her.
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I can sympathize with you on this being I have already went through it with a wife. Yeah it would give a small measure of satisfaction to get some pay back. But in the long run it would most likely cause more trouble than good. As lame as it may sound here be the bigger adult here and Karma will take care of the payback. Maybe you won't be present when she gets it , but it will eventually happen. What goes around , comes around0