I don't know what to do. Me and my "ex" are on a break, but I have recently found out he's going out with someone else now after telling me he wasn't and that we were "still together". He's also cheated on me time and time again and lied so much, and even puts me down. Just doesn't appreciate me and I have given him the world. This guy is horrible; the funny thing is though, I can't get past him. No, I definitely do not want to be with him again. I just can't get past it, I love him, or at least I feel like I do. Just help, please...how do I move on...any success stories or ANYTHING. Why can't I get over this JACKASS?!
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I was in a very similar situation where I just could not get over this guy but he was a complete and utter d***. The way I got over him? I sat down one day, pulled out a notebook, and wrote down all the good things from our relationship. Then I turned to the next page and wrote down all the bad things he did to me. Then on the third page I wrote down what I really deserved from a boyfriend. I tried to immerse myself in anything I could after that... school, sports, I hung out with my girls, anything I really could find to do I threw myself into. Eventually, everything I was doing was able to distract me from my feelings for him and helped me get over him. But I am human and I did have my weak points when I just wanted to go back to him. When these moments came I would pull out the book and read through it. It reminded me of why he was a d*** and why he didn't deserve me. You're ex is an asshole if he doesn't appreciate you. You deserve a man who won't cheat on you, will treat you right, and never lies to you... and HE'S OUT THERE! Don't give up just keep looking.0