Most Helpful Girl
There's no time limit or re. edu for a broken heart. Sometimes time just helps you to learn to live with the pain , and helps you to find a way of surviving without them.
Time doesn't heal a broken heart... it's what you do with your time which heals it. Keeping busy and your mind focused on things other than her will help your feelings to fade, and gradually the pain will not feel so raw. It isn't a case of getting over it... it's a case of finding a way through it.
There comes a time when you have to accept that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life. You have no choice but to accept it's over. If you don't you will suffer emotionally for a long time
Most Helpful Guy
Well I'd never been depressed for a long time period over a break-up, but I've certainly lacked "closure" for long periods of time. // I'd say talk to friends. Try to come to grips with it. Sometimes some of the old sayings work, such as "if someone from your past doesn't make it to your future, BE GLAD", etc. // See a therapist if you need to. // Realize that it is not always "personal". Perhaps you or she just needed to "move on".