Most Helpful Guy
i'm sorry you're hurt. break ups always suck
you're looking for closure but you got it. he ended the relationship. he gave signs that you mentioned... shorter conversations, no plans for your b-day, cutting the night short to do homework and play video games.
the still following you on social media is inconsequential.
now the desire to "come around" Friday is odd and i think you should cancel those plans because it definitely blurs the lines of what is supposed to be happening here. you need time to heal and move on
Most Helpful Girl
This is how my 2 year relationship breakup happened & literally a week or so later he had a new girl. It's hard but you just have to remind yourself to take care of you... Asking for closure may be a good thing so then you won't always think about the what ifs... but my "closure" was him saying a bunch of BS & lies to try to protect my feelings i guess. It sucks how guys are sometimes, but whatevs; you'll find someone who won't leave you hanging like that in the long run!