It's been a year since my breakup and honestly it still hurts sometimes. A month after our breakup he got another girl pregnant. We were together 4 years and of course we had our arguments. We were engaged twice. The first time I called it off and I regret it now. I found that he was talking about having sex with a girl a week before he asked me and I called it off because I didn't think the proposal was genuine if he could be asking to sleep with a girl a week before asking me to marry him. At the same time I wasn't ready because we had only been together 6 months, so I called it off. Throught the relationship we argued and broke up for a week and got back together on and off. He would still flirt with other girls and after awhile I started to text other guys. I just don't know how much longer he's still going to be on my mind. Honestly I still care for him, but I know he has a kid now. How do I just let him go?
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly it seems like he was uncommitted. It is certainly time to move on.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Obviously it's going to hurt, the trust that you took long to built up has just gone. You've got to ask yourself a question, are you ready to look after another kid. Do you care for him that much that you can take a child from another women. I think that you should set boundrys, don't speak to him a while. Clear your mind, stay away from him and think. Take a hot bath, relax and think. Even going on holiday and shutting your phone of could help you think.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE