I have a friend that I have been talking to for a month. He is 18 and I am 21. He had a girlfriend when I met him but he would text me everyday all day and even started to call me every night. As a couple weeks passed by I started to go over his house a couple days out of week. He is so sweet to me but our communication is not like it used to be. He doesn't really text or call anymore but when I go over his house we are all under each other and stuff. He recently broke up with his girlfriend because they were on bad terms but does this scarce communication mean that he has stopped liking me and is he most likely to cheat because he is young?
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People cheat because they're not mature enough to deal with their own (communication) problems (within the relationship); or because they're not mature enough to see possible depths of a relationship if you work a little bit on it. I know 16-year-olds with a maturity of a 32-year-old and vice versa. So I don't think physical age matters.
The scarce communication part does however - if you feel it's going down, let him know about it - just don't push it too much; guys usually don't want to feel "suffocated". Better to just let him know you want to spend time with him more than to ask him why he is not spending the same amount of time with you..Maybe it is something completely outside of your relationship which makes him talk less - but at least you'd have let him know that you want to be there for him..1
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