How do you deal with being just as miserable nine months after a breakup as the day it happened? How do you get closure when there was no closure? Just more and more distance until I broke up with him after an 8 mo. amazing relationship and him saying 'you love me more than i love you'...
how do you get over someone you can;t live without? i dont want what we had with anyone else ever... that's how much i love him still...
and after 9 mo. of misery after breaking up do you think a person needs to see someone for help? this can't be normal to cry everyday over someone who doesn't even talk to you. i just needed closure - some kind of explanation.
Most Helpful Guy
Go out and have fun with your friends. Dont be alone. Dont have time to think about him. Make yourself busy. Delete him from everything. Date other guys. Doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship just have fun right now. Focus on yourself1
Most Helpful Girl
I was with this guy for a little over a year and then he dumped me and moved away. This was about 3 years ago. I was devastated when he left and cried all the time. I loved him and I thought we would get married but he didn't feel quite the same. Recently I found out he got married. It did hurt a little but I didn't cry and was genuinely happy for him. I do miss what we had and I haven't yet found it with someone else but I believe that I will. You kinda have to make a conscious decision to move on. It's like when you're dieting. Maybe you really want brownies, but you know it's not good for you, so you reach for grapes instead. I forced myself to go out with guys, hang out with friends, and focus on myself and my own happiness. Over time it got better but I had to make that decision everyday to not dwell on it. A part of me will always care for him but I've moved on. One day you will look up and realize that you've moved on too :)1