How do you deal with being just as miserable nine months after a breakup as the day it happened? How do you get closure when there was no closure? Just more and more distance until I broke up with him after an 8 mo. amazing relationship and him saying 'you love me more than i love you'...
how do you get over someone you can;t live without? i dont want what we had with anyone else ever... that's how much i love him still...
and after 9 mo. of misery after breaking up do you think a person needs to see someone for help? this can't be normal to cry everyday over someone who doesn't even talk to you. i just needed closure - some kind of explanation.
Most Helpful Guy
Go out and have fun with your friends. Dont be alone. Dont have time to think about him. Make yourself busy. Delete him from everything. Date other guys. Doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship just have fun right now. Focus on yourself1
Most Helpful Girl
Ultimately, you probably aren't going to get any closure. And that sucks but at the same time, you could just chock it up to him being an ass... If he said 'you love me more than I love you' then he probably wasn't worth your time anyway. And that is probably going to be insanely hard to accept but it may be the only way you can move on. Anyone who says something like that at the end of a relationship is very insecure and just trying to save face.
Go have some fun with friends and get your mind off him. Someone like that isn't worth it.
But don't be mad or too regretful, smile because it happened and remember the good times.1