I've been with this guy for 7 1/2 years now and we have 2 children together i was 16 when i fell for him but now i just dont feel the same... i love him but im not in love with him and i have told him this but he insists he can change he just doesn't understand its really not him i just dont feel the same i once did about him and last time i tried to leave he threatened his own life i feel stuck and dont know how to go about this
Most Helpful Guy
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Most Helpful Girl
Dear, it sounds like you are in a toxic unhealthy relationship. I do hope it's not abusive; normally in an abusive relationship, it's so dangerous to leave that's why many people choose to stay even though they jeopardize their own happiness and safety. Get support (through friends, family, and professional if possible).
If there are no abuse going on, and you just lost feelings for him over the years, you should be able to talk to him like adults.
It sounds like you are ready to leave (by your title) if you are worry about his welfare, you can always inform 911 to escort you and your children or do a safety check to make sure he's ok. You can always call up his friends/family and make sure they monitor him so he does no harm to himself.1