I've been with this guy for 7 1/2 years now and we have 2 children together i was 16 when i fell for him but now i just dont feel the same... i love him but im not in love with him and i have told him this but he insists he can change he just doesn't understand its really not him i just dont feel the same i once did about him and last time i tried to leave he threatened his own life i feel stuck and dont know how to go about this
Most Helpful Guy
You can't let his inability to cope with your leaving stop you. He needs to figure out how to live on his own.
Trust me, I know the situation you are in now. It sucks. I'm sorry there's no easy solution.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You have to ask yourself,
Do you want to remain prisoner to this relationship forever?
If not, then you must leave now.
Sticking around to spare him the heartache or the hurt will only back fire on you.
You are allowing him to control you.
That is not fair.
Take your life and your rights back!
I just want to add, if you're expecting to feel butterflies in your stomach all of the time , then that is not realistic.
That is the infatuation stage of a relationship.
It is one that dies out.
In order to rekindle those same feelings, you have to spice
up your relationship.
Either way, you seem at wits ends.
Whether you decide to rekindle what you once had,
how your boyfriend is reacting to you leaving is un-healthy.
What he is doing needs to be talked about.
Never allow yourself to remain a victim at the hands of someone else.
<3 Best wishes0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE