What a shitty holiday.
Most Helpful Guy
You cannot force him to return anything without going to more trouble that it is probably worth, but. . .
If his parents or other close family member lives nearby, return his belongings to the family member with a request that they ask him to give your things to them so that you can retrieve them without needing to see him again. Give them a list of what he has. This means that you will not need to see him and they will be bugging him about getting your things together.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well I would just ask him if he wants them or if I could toss them, most likely if theyre not important to him he'll say toss them, if he wants them he can come and get them.0