What did I do wrong?
Boyfriend and I had an argument. He ate a piece of pastry and the crumbs fell on the floor. I'd already cooked, cleaned, and wanted to just chill. I asked him nicely if he could pick up the piece of crumb. He said "It can't be. It's not possible. I didn't drop it." There were crumbs on the floor. I picked them up myself, and I said "there were crumbs on the floor and I already threw them away for you. Just don't tell me there were no crumbs like I'm crazy," sounding a little upset.
I sat on the computer to read and just chill out.
Five minutes later, he accused me of being angry still. I said, "No, I'm no longer angry. I'm okay now, I just want to chill and read articles for a bit."
He kept saying, "No you're still angry." Then we got into another argument about why I'm not angry. I kept saying I'm okay. I'm not angry.
He stormed off, and he said, "Fuck you!"
I tried to calm him down, but he was inconsolable. We broke up that night.
Two days later, he said he's sorry, but he needs time. What did I do wrong?
A two days later, he said: "I hope you are doing okay. I am really sorry that I was so angry. I definitely need some time to think. In the interim I want you to know that I care about you deeply."
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