Anyways, I was a needy and brought up the relationship a couple of times (begging, love letter.. etc). After about a week I did no contact but only for 18 days and started slowly texting her and building rapport. It was starting to work and we texted more often. I met her about a month after and met one of her girl friends that night as well, however that same night, I brought up the relationship again and started questioning her and even tried making a move (big mistake) She pushed back and said she needed time. I became needy again and started to push her to talk, called her a bunch of times with no response and got upset when she wasn’t responding. Last message I sent her was lets be friends and asked her to hang out. – No response.
I’ve done no contact again I’m now in day 25.. but this time, I haven’t heard anything from her. She’s on vacation right now.. Should I reach out to her on day 30 and wish her a Happy New year? and then from there give it more time (another 30 days of no contact) before building rapport again? or should I continue on and do a longer no contact and message her and try to start slowly building rapport again? Or should I not message at all for months and hope that she comes back some how?
I know it was a short relationship and I’ve made a lot of mistakes. I have no idea if she’s seeing anyone else but it can very well be the case.. Just need help on the best approach.