My husband and I are going through the big D. I moved out the first week of November. The kids are with me. Every week end they go to his house. Monday my little girl (4) told me "daddy mailed a valentine card to his new girl friend" I did not know he was dating some one new. I did not think I would even care but now I feel empty and sad. I don't feel attracted to him, but I love him we have kids together. I am glad he is happy but I can't stop thinking about him with someone new.