First of all I regret it at the same time I know it was the right thing. I can't stop feeling guilty though especially when he took it harder than I thought he ever would. I feel like I don't have the right to be happy and I'm scared that karma is gonna catch upon me. I feel like I'm not allowed to look at him or be at the same place as him, I feel like an awful person. I haven't broken up with anyone before so I didn't do it the best way either and that makes me feel even more guilty.
Feeling super guilty after breaking up?
What Guys Said 1
Don't feel guilty about it. Sometimes in life we make very hard and tough choices. If it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be. You had to do what was best for you.0
What Girls Said 1
Well there must be a reason why you feel that way? Maybe you didn't thought it through? Maybe you weren't sure about the breakup? Maybe you were confused and you just needed some time apart?
Was it something that he did? Was it something that you did? Every breakup has a reason, and it has to be a big one, because if it was a small one then it's probably gonna hunt you for awhile.
So, why did you breakup?
I never felt guilty for breaking up, nor did I regret it. I felt sad for awhile for them, but ultimately happy and relieved for doing it. But then again, I only dumped 2 guys in my life. First one was when I was very young and stupid (I regret it and tried to get him back, but he didn't want to, so I moved on. He found another girlfriend soon after and they are now happily married), and other guy I dumped because his family hated me and were making my life miserable. He wasn't on my side so fuck him. All the other times I was the one being dumped.0
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