Im kind of just venting here but feedback is always nice I guess?
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Never text your ex. I just don't see why that would be beneficial for either of you. Normally, I cut all forms of communication whenever I break up with someone. It's not realistic to have a failed relationship, and try to pick the pieces and start a "friendship" (which is again, highly unlikely). Messaging him is like having a needle stuck in your arms, and instead of getting rid of it, you sit around and wonder why it's not getting better. Right now, you're spending your time trying to try and build some form of relationship, and you're wondering why you haven't gotten over him.
I know you shouldn't be criticized for how you feel, but you do need to put your well being in front of whatever you feel for this guy. You deserve to move on and be happy with yourself or in another relationship. The first step is moving on, regardless of whether or not you have had closure or not.
Inspirational songs, spending time with friends, focusing on yourself. etc are good ways to start.
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